Review: Knowing Your Value by Mika Brzezinski

I started to read this book but didn’t finish before my library loan expired. Later, during the library’s Bookapoolza Sale, where they sell hardbacks for a dollar and paperbacks for 50 cents, I snagged the hardback published in 2010.

I was looking for answers, for help.

It is demoralizing to be in a work environment where younger versions of yourself walk in the door with no experience and command a higher base (I’m in sales) than you. To live that is a poison you to your self-worth and to continue to take it is not what I want to model for my daughter.

Pay inequity pushes good people to a breaking point, either it breaks them, or they break out of here.

She details working women who feel lucky, grateful, willing to apologize at the drop of a hat, and more than ready to work hard to be deemed valuable. Yet value is the unreachable brass ring. And that striving creates a destructive cycle of labor for which there is no end.

Brzezinski holds herself accountable for most of the pay inequity she experienced in a career progression that brought her to the MSNBC show Morning Joe. So, this isn't a male bashing book or a blame placing tome.

She explains the tactics she tried to receive pay increases that didn’t work.

When criticized about her wardrobe or hair, as she sits next to a man who tumbled out of bed and ran his fingers through his mop before the camera started to roll, she doesn’t ask for an expense account, she goes all in trying to keep up the image of a highly paid, successful television personality and goes broke. She shares stories of multiple women and their struggles to find equal footing in the workplace and a few that had someone help them.

She writes like a journalist – balanced reporting, telling a story and anecdotes from both female and male perspectives.

She made everyone else rich.

She made herself angry.

Now she’s getting even – but only if you read the book and take advantage of that she learned.

I finished the book. This time.

Then, I made my own request of the big boss. Still waiting to see how that turns out. In the meantime, I highly recommend Knowing Your Value by Mika Brzezinski.

Source: library sale

Comments

How I got here and why it matters by Carol Doane

When I learned to write complete sentences I had one goal, to write a book. Somewhere in the youthful march through grade school, in some secret place long forgotten, is the book I started. I was seven-years old. I wrote prose, neatly in pencil, on blue lined notebook paper and added tiny illustrations at the top of my chapters. I drew my brother's birthday, bunny cake that celebrated his arrival at the terrible twos with frosting smeared onto his nose by my mother before she took his picture — with a film camera. I wrote about my uncle's visit from the distant country of Texas. I wrote about the way the world hurt and how small I felt. As I raced through school and ploughed down the writing path, I wrote stories and essays that high school teachers returned, scratched with red grammar corrections and tantalizing notes, such as, "This would make a good book." When I graduated college, my reward was to take a break, stop writing, and read what I wanted to...

Review: Everything I never told you by Celeste Ng

“Everything here reminds her of what Lydia could have been.” Lydia, a high school student has died and her mother drifts into her room to experience the smells and sensations of the girl who used to inhabit the space. Across town, Lydia’s father has dropped into another woman’s bed and sleeps tranquilly. Nothing in life has happened as it should. Love gets lost in withheld touches and unspoken thoughts. Parents’ expectations are driven into successive generations and serve as baggage rather than inspiration. Words hurt: “ this,” referring to Lydia’s parent’s marriage, “isn’t right.” Words are avoided: mixed, interracial, mismatched. Words that could reassure lay stagnant and not vocalized. Words are smithed to cope: “disappeared, fell in the lake, drowned.” The family’s search to understand the daughter who died, their search for a killer to pin their grief on, the destruction of trust, and the slow melting away of relationships show a family on the brink. The sprint ...

Review: Bride of the Sea by Eman Quotah

“And the word divorce is whispering in his ear, a secret no when else knows.” Muneer, a 23-year-old journalism student from Saudi Arabia attending university in the United States, is considering divorcing his 19-year-old wife, also from Saudi Arabia, who is pregnant and about to give birth. He has this thought when she is shoveling snow without a jacket, scarf, or gloves. She seems to like the cold. Before the baby is born, she strips down to her underwear and walks into a lake in winter. Is this a suicide attempt? It’s hard to grasp that concept –a young woman so unhappy she walks into a lake pregnant, a couple who doesn’t share, has no team goal, with divorce thoughts shortly before their child is born. The couple divorces. The wife, Saeedah, or Sadie as she is later known, flees with their daughter and spends the next seventeen years hiding from Muneer, his family, and her family. How is this life of hiding, that Sadie has taken her daughter Hannah on, different from a c...

Book Convos with Carol Doane

Search This Blog